Relational Consequences & God’s Refining

Oct 5, 2025    Chris Figaretti

In this week’s message, we continue our journey through the life of David as he faces one of the darkest chapters of his story — betrayal by his own son, Absalom.


As Absalom leads a coup against his father, David experiences deep hurt, deception, and humiliation. Yet through it all, God is still working — shaping David’s character and showing mercy in the middle of brokenness.


Join us as we explore:

2 Samuel 16–17

Absalom’s conspiracy and David’s heartbreak

The danger of making decisions when tired, hungry, or hurt (HALT)

The pain of betrayal — from Absalom, Ahithophel, and Mephibosheth

How God uses brokenness to build humility and faith

The mercy of God that refreshes us in our darkest moments

Lessons from the battle plans of Absalom, Ahithophel, and Hushai

Why God will never bless immoral means to achieve His purposes


Key Takeaways:

Never make significant life decisions when you are tired, hungry, or hurt.

Sometimes God will allow you to be broken in order to form your character.

The mercy of God refreshes us even in our darkest moments.

God will not bless our efforts when we choose immoral means.


Scripture References:

2 Samuel 16–17

Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted…”

Philippians 4:6–7 – “The peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”